The Child Free Zone
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“The Child Free Zone”

Childfree advocates and social network for childfree people.
Dedicated to finding ways for businesses to have the right to serve adults only.

Some businesses are entirely inappropriate for children.  Casinos, taverns, bars, liquor stores, tattoo parlors, smoke shops, marijuana shops and festivals, sex shops, etc. yet parents are bringing their children into these businesses.  In my opinion these businesses should be allowed if not required to have a “Child Free Zone” notice on the front door.

The end result of this is we Childfree don’t go out to public places as often, if at all.  We the people with the most disposable income are not spending our money.  Families who live on a tight budget are going out and buying the cheapest products on available and running off the Childfree customers.

This website is dedicated to finding ways for businesses to have the right to serve the clientele they desire.  If a business wants to have children that should be their choice.  If a business does not want to have children that also should be their choice. The key word here is “Freedom”.

Businesses should have the freedom to choose.  Customers should have the freedom to choose to do business with a restaurant, bar, theater or any other place that will provide a Childfree environment.  If you agree with this rational, modern, and well-informed outlook, please feel free to join in on the discussion.

Vern Southern

RespectfullyChildfree.com

BLAIR LARAE, seen on right, A character on The Facts of Life inspired my parents to name me Blair. I lived in a small town in Illinois until accepting a university scholarship moved me to Oklahoma.

During my college years I learned a lot about life, a lot about God, and enough about marketing to get a degree – and later a position in Development for a non-profit medical organization.

The years between then and now have been filled with both joy and sorrow; more grief than I expected in a lifetime, and beautiful restoration beyond what I deserve.

My husband Travis and I currently live in Texas with our three dogs: Winnie – a black Pomeranian with lots of (sometimes too much) personality, Moxie – The. Sweetest! and sleepiest little Yorkie, and Linlee – a playful black and white Shih Tzu puppy.

While dating and first married, Travis and I were certain we wanted to raise children. But, now we’re not so sure. Our mindset has changed from deciding WHEN we’d have kids to deciding IF we’ll have kids.

I like to call our status: certainly uncertain. We’re certain we don’t have a desire to parent right now. But we’re uncertain of what the future holds – and want to remain open to life as it happens.

Visit her website here RespectfullyChildfree.com

Donna Mary

My husband passed 6/27 and I don’t speak to his family, thank goodness. I never had children and don’t miss his nieces and nephews. Shortly after we started dating, we went to his cousin’s communion. When the child opened his presents his 8 year old niece found out he opened their present from her and her parents. She was screaming and crying which embarrassed me so much. I’d expect that kind of behavior from a 3 year old, not an 8 year old.

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Richard Branson’s Virgin Voyages is Launching a Cruise Ship for Adults Only

“Let’s face it, even parents could use a holiday from their little ones sometimes.”

That’s why we’ve taken great care to design a place where you, your friends or your significant other can have the best possible experience, sans the unpredictability of kids.  Because of that you must be at least 18 to sail with us. No kidding. See what we did there?  So whether you want to unplug and disconnect or network with like minded travelers, it’s all there.  Just show up with your dreams, curiosity, and love of all things stress-free.

Let us do the rest.

What are you waiting for!?  Book you vacation Today!

Should Airlines Have Childfree Flights?

I just read an article titled “Should Aussie Airlines Be Offering Child Free Zones On Planes?”.  This is one of those areas in life where a Child Free Zone does not work.  What good is it if the small section you are sitting in does not allow children if there are children just a few rows in front of you or behind you?

I guess it is better than nothing. If the airline can guarantee minimal noise, soft ambient lighting and fast meal services I think it might would be worth the thirty nine dollar extra fee. However I have my doubts.  If you are bothered by children will the airline offer you a refund?  Not likely.

If they are going to offer a truly child free experience there needs to be some sort of partition blocking the potential noise kids make.  A crying baby in the last row of seats can be heard by the passengers in the first row.

It is probably not possible to have entire flights booked with child free people.  The airline needs to sell every seat on the plain, especially budget flights.  It is an issue that needs to be addressed.  Certainly parents need to take there kids with them on trips but does everyone on the plain have to be inconvenienced by loud children?

The two airlines mentioned in the article on TravelWeekly.com offering Child Free Zones are AirAsia and Qantas

The Arrogance of Parents

An article I just read titled “My Kids are not an Inconvenience (for you)” pretty much sums up my point. Parents believe because they love their children that gives them permission to take the kids everywhere.

Huff Post News Contributor Jessica Johnston, proclaims that “Kids are a part of life…period. In my opinion, they bring a lot of sunshine and joy to the world. I know I like mine.” I can assure Ms. Johnston her children do not bring joy into my life.

Ms. Johnston states “A baby in an airplane who is screaming is not ‘annoying you’ and making your flight terrible, it’s a lot worse for the baby and for the parents than it is for you.” Wow! Forget about the other 150 to 200 people on the plain. It’s all about her.

And perhaps the most reveling statement Ms. Johnston makes is “Kids are a normal part of society; it’s always been that way. You are not actually entitled to a child-free life.” Which is the whole point of my website. This attitude that parents have that they are the only one that matters and child-free people have no rights.

Source: HuffPost Article

Note Added 27 Oct. 2017:  When I commented on this article on HuffPost I copied most of the article and pasted it in the comments.  My comment was removed.  I am not surprised.  The last thing parents want to hear is someone does not like their kids.  I assume the monirator on HuffPost is a parent and removed my comment.  So much for freedom of speech. I guess I am not allowed the right to express any opinions without censorship or restraint.

Childfree and Trying to Make a Difference

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I knew a long time ago I was never going to be a parent. Even as a child I did not care for children. I avoided playing with the kids on the block unless they had a baseball game going on. Most of the time you could find me hanging out with the adults.

Being born in the late 1950s my formative years were the 60s and 70s. This is the time when people started to become aware of over population, pollution and the limited resources of our planet. It made me aware that having more children would only add to the worlds problems. By the age of 10 I had decided to be child-free.

Throughout the years as my family and friends grew up, got married and had kids I grew farther apart from them. It is not like I hate children. I am fine with people having a “Small” number of kids, one or two. It is when people like my cousin having four kids and another having five, that’s when I have an issue.

As many child-free people can attest to, we are singled out as being strange, weird or odd. Mostly we are called selfish. I see it as exactly the opposite. The average carbon footprint for one person is about 9 metric tons a year. If you have five kids that’s 45 tons a year. Not to mention the strain on the Eco system to produce food, clothing, housing, education, clean water and all of the other things a human needs to live. Who is being selfish? People having large families.

What has become a problem in the United States over the past 40 years is the proliferation of children in all areas of life. Some businesses are entirely inappropriate for children. Casinos, taverns, bars, liquor stores, tattoo parlors, smoke shops, marijuana shops and festivals, sex shops, etc. yet parents are bringing their children into these businesses. In my opinion these businesses should be allowed if not required to have a “Child Free Zone” notice on the front door.

The end result of this is we Childfree don’t go out to public places as often, if at all. We the people with the most disposable income are not spending our money. Families who live on a tight budget are going out and buying the cheapest products and services available and running off the Childfree customers.

If a business wants to have children that should be their choice. If a business does not want to have children that also should be their choice. The key phrase here is “Freedom of Choice”. Businesses should have the freedom to choose. Customers should have the freedom to choose to do business with a restaurant, bar, theater or any other place that will provide a Child-Free environment.

What we need here in the United States are places where adults can go that are mainstream. I have nothing against sex shops, casinos or NC-17 movies but I don’t want to hang out in them just to be in a kid free environment. It would be nice to see a movie or enjoy a meal or have some stimulating conversation in a coffee house without someones crying baby or young children running around unattended ruining the experience. We need Child Free Zones, Places designated for adults and even older children 16 years old an up.

The main problem, as I see it anyway is, the child-free community. If you can even call us a community. What I see and have experienced on the Internet and social media is hundreds or even thousands of groups of child-free people reaching out to tell their story but none of them willing to work together on any level.

Everyone seems to be striving to gain or win something by defeating or establishing superiority over other child-free groups in order to be the best group while in effect canceling each other out. Going in to a group on Facebook and making almost any kind of statement usually gets you flamed by several people who find the smallest of points to argue about. This in my option accomplishes nothing. What we have to do is bond together.

There is no problem with everyone keeping there own groups but we need to develop a plan. I believe that having child-free zones and even child-free times for public businesses is a real possibility. It can be done if we work together. It will require three levels of activism.

  1. Business Level: I believe many businesses are willing to be a Child Free Zone or having child-free times or even child-free events if they could be assured they would have the customers to make it worth their while. This is where small local child-free groups can really help. By going out and talking to local businesses like restaurants, coffee houses and sports bars and asking them to have child-free times and events.
  2. Government Level: This is where we all need to work together and demand children be banned from certain inappropriate businesses like casinos, taverns, bars, liquor stores, tattoo parlors, smoke shops, marijuana shops and festivals, sex shops, etc. Contact your local City, State and County representatives, Contact your United States Senators and U.S. House representatives
  3. Parent Level: Many parents would like to be able to go out and enjoy a child-free evening too. Parents are not the enemy and we are going to need their help with our goals. We need to win their hearts and minds over to our cause. Talking down to them or calling them names like “breeders” does not help.

Throughout the years I have started four websites and as many groups on social media trying to get something done. I have had no success. I have decided to try again, I am committing myself to this new project with all of me heart and soul and I am not going to stop until I see some real progress in creating some child-free opportunities for people to be able to go out and enjoy themselves without having to raise other peoples children.

I am asking you to join with me. Come and be part of the solution. Post what you are doing on my website. It does not matter what level you are at, You can be an ordinary person, a social media group administrator or member, someone who writes books about child-free or any other child-free advocate.

Please keep in mind If you do not agree with this rational, modern, and well-informed outlook, please go elsewhere. This is not a discussion about whether people should or should not be child free. Our members all agree that this is the best lifestyle for us and other opinions are not welcome. The website will be moderated and every effort will be taken to keep out the trolls. The website is for child-free advocates only.

ChildFreeZone.org is my newest and last website for the child-free. Our mission is dedicated to finding ways for businesses to have the right to serve the clientele they desire and to include the child-free as customers through either having Child Free Zones or having child-free times or events.

Please join us at http://www.childfreezone.org/ you can contact me there on our contact page.

Vern Southern,
Denver Colorado.

What’s it to you if some people don’t have kids?

World Childless Week was created by a British woman, Stephanie Phillips, as a way of highlighting the experiences of people who are unable to have children. Not to be confused with those who are childless by choice – the “child-free”, as some say.

Seemingly worlds apart, they share a vexed similarity. Of course, most people each group encounters are probably just interested and kind. Less helpfully, the childless can sometimes find themselves tormented by invasive, agonizing questions, while the child-free can end up being ruthlessly interrogated about the “strange” decision they’ve made.

Read More Here: Guardian News